"Mother"- The one who gives us birth after a terrific pain and suffers for 9 months conseiving us in her womb and while giving us birth she takes a pain of all the bones getting fractured at one time. After Dels of pains and suffers, she is so selfless to give us birth and dedicate her life to us. One who starts weaving a beautiful dream for her child and his/her future, one which always finds the ways to guide her child in a right direction in a right manner and with love and intensity. Mothers are son increadible and they are the real angel, god has sent fore us, without her this whole world is going to be empty- not because she is the one who gives birth to a child, but it is beacause even though child takes birth in this world it will be nothing but a a soul with no strenght and meaning towards life, a person with no guidence and no love. She is the one who teaches us the values of life, one who guides us with principle, one show us the light to follow, one takes all the oains on herself to serve us the comfort, one who wil sleep in wet pee of ours at the middle of the night- judt to serve us from cold, one who will cry when we cry, one who will understand us when we are all mum and we pretend to be soemthing which we are not indeed, one who says,'Oh! my child, teel me what happend? Is there any problem dear? I will help you out, but don't be sad becasue the moments you spend sad and upset are the moments my heart get wound on.".
For a mother he child is her love, her life, her trust, her faith, her soul and her everything. She trust her child more than she can trust herself but she never lets the child realize again an again how important he/ she is because just don't wnat her child to get supressed of any hard emos and what she wants is her child to be happy and lead a white pathed life. But at times it really becomes necessary for her to be hard on us, so as to guide us for where we are wrong and need to be careful, and that being hard does hurt us but it hurts more intensely to her as compared to we children. But we children always lack somewhere to serve her, that's true that we can never pay her back what she has given us eventhough we give our life to her, but we can serve her the best way just by being a good human being and being as loyal as we can. Yeah many a times, we arent able to confess our deeds and say the truth because of some understanding gap and some varies of thoughts and principles, but yeah we can afcourse try our best to be as frank and loyal as possible. Com'on we can atleast do soem thing for our angel!
For me my mom is a best freind, a freind who knows me so well that she can understand my mood and state of mind just by a way to talk, click of fingers and looking at my face. Some times she even gets intuition when I really need her and Iam too sad to be alone. She is one of the best mothers in this world. Yeah, sometimes there some things that I cnt share with her but just give a minor hint, we do have lots of exchange of words and hurts us bith later and than we are back togather. An existence of different mentality between a mom and her child will always exist because that is something we call a genration gap. But that's all fine., that normal- it will exist in the same way between your and child and you and my child and me! That is the normal face ofthis motther and child relation. When I was a tiny tot, I used to be soo much into my mother that even living for fractions of minute was jsut impossible and than slowly I grew up, joing Kindagarten - made new freinds than started with primary sections- secondary and thna atlast a highschool came where we come intop a teenage and where in any teen would feel that he/she is mature enough to knwoi what is right or wrong and try to beat up world all by oursleves where we are 90% wrong in our decissions :( But hey, we do learn by ourselves that what we did was wrong and learn for the right next time ;) Here diffrence of oppinions do occur but from our side it is we who have to understand he rna dact the same way! As being a teenager, I always used to be so freeset anf used to talk to my mom eveyr weekends about what are my feelings, what do I do., What am I going through and various other thigs, I share my best possible thigs with her and rest wiht the mates and any ither person I trust the most and sometimes when I feel that there is no one to here me, there i salways one palce left for me, that is Church where in, I siit ont first bench with my hands crossly joined, closing my eyes and feel my soul and heart in a deapth and ask myself wether I have doen something worng and than aks for the same to god and at that time, whe you really do that- trust me_ it seems as if your directly connected to God up and he guides you the same way! This is the age where we sometimes or most of the times, by mistake or in unpurpose way we hurt our mothers and hell it upto us :( But after few years of my Teenage, what I realised id that our angel soemtimes finds that same old kid in us and she would never be able to see us growing and thus for her atleast being a child was not a big deal foe me. Most of the times when I am with her, I am a child who doesn't care oft he world till he/she in lap of it's mother. I act the way I used to act in my pres, secondary and Kgs; and it really really feels good to see her smile and laugh and happy wiht he rdeep heart! She is an amazing mericale that God would ahve ever doen till now.
My mother is like a song in my heart-I may forget the word but the tune always hums and I can neve forget the tune of love and light she has added to my life. Sorry for when I hurted you and Sorry for when I was bad but I Thank you for all the hardshipsa and Love.
For those who have somewhere or some missunderstood their moms and still feel taht you were worng and she was rght, just remebr that these kind of phases are too normal and adjusting somewhere around is sameway easy because wjhat you need is to gear your understanding!!
---Angel Winget
