Men's Phsycology in An Relation Ship

I had been reading a book of Men's Phsycology and going through all, What I came to knw about them is, metioned below. But we can say 1 thing that they are so wiered in sum cases and a woman can surely cnt understand them easily because their way of xpressing things is totally contratsting to what they feel.


No relationship is perfect, and many arguments happen with a lack of understanding of what a man is really trying to tell us. This could save your relationship! This article really digs into a man’s path of thinking... Here are a few tips on what he could really be saying to you.




He says: ‘’I don’t love you, but I like you’’



What he really is saying: ‘’I’m not really ready to fall in love right now, but I am still willing to give this relationship a chance to see where it leads us. I am scared to fall in love quickly for fear of getting hurt again, and I don’t want to give you false hopes, if I’m not feeling it.



He says: ‘’Nothing has changed’’.



What he’s really saying : ‘’I wish you’d stop being insecure, it really is pushing me away from you. I may not show my emotions, but it does not mean that I am not willing to still be with you.



He says : ‘’That’s a stupid thing to say’’




What he’s really stating: ‘’I didn’t like how that came out, but if you said it in a different way, I may have responded with a better note."





He says: ‘’I’m really upset right now!’’.




What he’s really stipulating: ‘’I need alone time right now. I don’t want to take out on you, because things could get ugly. Please leave me alone, I will come around when I am feeling up for a chat’’



He says: ‘’ I will be late picking you up, I have a few things I need to accomplish before meeting up with you’’.



What he’s really saying : ‘’ I need some alone time to think, and I don’t want to be distracted by you while I am on a mission. So I really need to get things done before we can spend some quality time together, and later on my mind won’t be so distracted.



He says: ‘’ I want to quit smoking’’.




What he’s really saying: ‘’I need your support on this, because I cannot do this alone. I need you to help me the best you can.



He says: ‘’ I’m so tired, and really sore’’.



What he’s really saying: ‘’It would be nice to have a long back rub. Can you do that for me? I know this will make me feel better, and it will give me energy to give you quality loving later on’’.



He says: ‘’ It’s not you, it’s me’’






What he’s really saying: ‘’ I need to think things through, I am not ready to be in a relationship right now. So this is not going to work out between you and I’’.



He says: ‘’I will call you’’



What he really means: ‘’I am testing you, to see how independent you are, I don’t need someone to be calling me every day and all hours of the day. If I don’t call in a few days, try calling me but if I don’t call in a week after talking with you, I am not interested.



He says: ‘’I don’t want anything for Christmas, I don’t expect you to get me anything’’.



What he’s really saying. ‘’I don’t want to disappoint you, but Iam testing to see what your taste is like in gifts. However I do want something though. So surprise me.


Now the ladies, what we say and what they think...



Woman: ‘’I love you’’



What he is thinking: ‘’ I’m scared she is going to hurt me, I’m not sure if I should say it back. Do I really feel the same way, and if I do how do I express myself toward her’’?



Men have a hard time expressing their inner emotions because they were raised to be al macho like as a child. They were taught to not be a wimp in school and to fight back, when pushed. When it comes to love ad relationships, he is unsure how to really respond, as he really needs to feel it first in order to give you the response you are looking for.



Woman: ‘’I want to be with you forever, you are my everything’’.



What he is thinking: Same notion as above. He may have never experienced a woman to fall head over heels for him before, and this perhaps is new to him. He possibly is thinking. ‘Maybe this is it, maybe I finally found the one I want to be with, but I got to make sure that I love her first. But I don’t want to hurt her either’’.



Men want to take things slow, it does take a longer time for a man to fully come around. Though be careful some men are liable to be scared off.



Woman: ‘’ It just feels like you don’t want to spend as much time with me anymore’’.



What he is thinking: ‘’ Nothing has changed, but I wish you’d stop telling me this. Though I will make it up to you the best way that I can. I am not trying to avoid or ignore you, I have been extremely busy’’.



Men do NOT want to hear this kind of talk. It will push them away. They may have been busy and trying hard not to ignore you, but sometimes a lack of help from work, does cramp the relationship style.



Woman: "Are we fading away?’’



What he is thinking: ‘’I just need time for myself now and then. I am not choosing to ignore you, however, when I am distracted with work and other things in my life, I find it hard to concentrate on this relationship sometimes’’.



The stipulation is the same as above. He may need to concentrate more on his goals instead of just one thing. And that's something really good for your future, so a little co-operation can me you sail the sea...



Woman: ‘’I have a fear of abandonment’’



What he is thinking: ‘’ I cannot promise you eternal love, as nothing lasts forever. I will do my best to not hurt you. Though I will test you, to see how independent you really are, if I don’t call you for a few days. I want to see how you react. Though this phase will not last, it’s just a run test’’.



Men are not willing to hurt a woman in a relationship, though they are willing to test you and push your buttons, just enough to see if you’re willing to be apart for a few days. He will probably only do this a few times, in order to find out what you’re really like when there is low communication. Especially if he goes away on business trips, where he may not be able to communicate as much with you. Or if he suddenly has to fly off to a different country to reside.



Woman: ‘’ You are everything I have ever dreamed of’’



What he is thinking: ‘’I try my best, to make you happy. I want to make you feel this way because you are special.’’



A man may not show how he really feels when you say this to him, but really he is gloating. Don’t boost his ego up too much his head might pop ;-)




They are really confussing and they do nt seem frm outseide what exctly hey are and that reall make a womesn Pissed but hey, cum'on after knwoing them we can co-operate at times...

Up's and Downs - Life is boredom without them...

Up's and Downs in Life...

Up’s and Downs are the most normal and most complicated stages of our life and that's what makes our life worth in reality. I know, you might think that things like this are good to hear but worst to experience in life, but hey - this is my own experience and I am quite aware of those pains, depressions, exertions’ and several stuff we go through during we have our life in downs. Especially when we have our worst downs after best up’s that’s really awful and that effects our mind and life so much. It happens that we lose all the hopes from our life and where some people can cry and just make a bit of relief from what they are going through where as some people just bulk up all their pains and get on breaking from within. It happens that we come under a sudden dilemma and what we know is “I lost it!” Our hopes, faith, in fact we ourselves get lost somewhere and we don’t even have idea about that.

Life is like a roller coaster I believe. When it goes down, it does come up but here instead of butterflies and screams we have pain and cries. But hey the best thing about this rollercoaster is, when we have our Up’s we don’t get petrified – instead we are happy and sometimes that turns out to be so good that we reach cloud nine or even beyond that.

We at times even come into a feeling where in we find our self to be so lucky and extra-ordinarily special. These are best up’s and we find our life to be totally settled and smooth, but sometimes it happens that suddenly a meteor falls down and spoils everything and you feel, “Oh Shoot! My life was superb man, didn’t expect this! Why does it happen to me always? Oh! God – did you find me the only person in your world to take on sorrows?” But hey come ‘on, you can make out yourself after going back to your flashback that this game of life or almighty - whatever you believe, its amazing. It’s so interesting and it gives us meaning of living, because if we would be all happy, all the life - it wouldn’t have given you the same feeling if you wouldn’t have struggled for that happiness and same way if our whole life goes on with all the goods and no bad, it becomes quite boring and all bad and no goods makes it horrible and as said, “Everything needs to be in balance and that’s what makes it fun”

So no matter how long your life goes into downs but as soon as it catches and uproot, trust me you will be happy more than you should have been and that’s what real fun of life is. It’s quite incredible to feel what you got and that’s what you actually deserve after all your downs and yeah, it will for sure increase the value of your that present emotions and out of world feelings.

-Angel Winget